Utilizing Networking Groups

The saying “It’s not what you know, but who you know” still holds true for career progression, but for women, building those all-important connections comes with extra hurdles. Research published in the Academy of Management Journal, highlighted by Harvard Business Review, shows that women face greater barriers than men when it comes to forming high-status networks. One striking finding? Women are 40% less likely than men to form strong ties with senior leaders after face-to-face interactions. Traits like assertiveness and confidence—often linked with leadership—are judged through a traditional gendered lens, which means women's and other marginalised genders contributions can be overlooked. So, what’s the solution? Women can leverage third-party introductions, which often carry implicit endorsement and help sidestep these biases. In fact, the research shows women are more likely than men to succeed in building high-status networks through shared contacts. Organisations also need to step up by creating network sponsorship programmes, where leaders don’t just mentor women—they actively advocate for them, opening doors and making introductions that help women advance. It’s time for organisations to rethink how they approach networking. By fostering more inclusive, proactive strategies, we can break down barriers and create a level playing field for women to build the connections that will drive their careers forward. Let’s turn "who you know" into an opportunity for everyone. #Networking #GenderEquity #ThreeBarriers

You don’t stop being disabled when conference or event sessions end, so why do so many organisers forget about inclusion at conference dinners and networking events? It’s great to see more events offering sign language interpreters, quiet rooms, and accessible seating during the main agenda. But what about during the coffee breaks? The networking dinner? The drinks at the end? If those adjustments vanish the moment the keynote’s over, it’s not inclusion – it’s performance. Disabled people don’t just attend the content. We build relationships, grab lunch, join the side conversations. And if those moments aren’t accessible, we’re being excluded from the most valuable parts of the day. Having sign language interpreters available throughout all event elements; keeping quiet rooms open; offering seated areas during networking; telling people food and drink menus in advance; offering sighted assistance for intros; having portable hearing loops in place; or providing enetworking options. These are all things you can do to show you actually want to host an inclusive event in full, not just meet minimum requirements. Inclusion isn’t a scheduled item. It’s a commitment. #DisabilityInclusion #Disability #DisabilityEmployment #Adjustments #DiversityAndInclusion #Content

How to network and connect at games events A lot of younger gamers have asked for tips on how to navigate socializing at industry events, although I also believe most of this is generally applicable to any industry or situation. The truth is, the best networkers aren’t focused on networking at all. They’re just great at having genuine, meaningful interactions with others. Here are a few things I’ve learned from the best at it over 25+ years, since my first internship: 1. Relationships are least about talking about business. Unless it’s a specific work discussion, the best relationship-builders spend most of their time telling stories, having fun, and making others feel at ease. Don't make people feel like they are in an interview or a timeshare pitch in what is a social situatiom 2. Make space for the other person. Everyone enjoys talking about themselves at some level. Ask questions, listen, and give them a chance to share too 3. Read the room and recognize different social styles. For example, some senior people just want to relax with existing close friends - not the best time to pitch them or talk shop. Like you, there are many I would die to talk to. But they are human just like you and me and it is kind to give them space - imagine how you would feel if everywhere you went everybody wanted to say the same things to you about how they are such a big fan. And then some are very approachable - it simply varies a lot Also, some folks thrive on high-energy conversations, while some prefer deeper 1:1 discussions. Some people engage more after a few casual interactions, while others are ready to dive into meaningful topics right away. The better you pick up on these cues, the smoother your conversations will be 4. Be prepared for common topics. Expect people to ask what you’re playing, what you think about the industry, or what your company is up to. Have something thoughtful to say so you’re not caught off guard 5. Know your social style too. In large groups, I’m often quieter. I thrive more in 1:1 or small group settings. I think that’s okay - I don’t force myself too far outside my comfort zone 6. Be (appropriately) real. It’s a balance - don’t overshare, but if someone asks how you’re doing and you trust them, be honest. Some of the best connections I’ve made came from having real conversations on shared interests or concerns. 7. Give people your full attention. No looking at your phone, no scanning the room, no appearing distracted. Nothing will happen in the 30 or 60 minutes you’re together that can’t wait. Go device-free and be present - it makes a difference 8. You’re not a robot - be natural. Even with everything above, there’s an approach, not mannered or fake, to doing this well. The goal is to be prepared without sounding canned, to have awareness without being overly calculated, and to engage meaningfully without forcing it. It takes time. 9. Kindness and humility Self-explanatory 10. Total authenticity People can tell

Human connection and a sense of belonging are vital to our psychological well-being and even our survival. And, of course, our work productivity is also built on the foundation of well-being. But true belonging cannot be built on a one-size-fits-all formula. While the need for connection is universal, how we connect varies greatly. Neurodiversity, for example, is a diversity of how we respond to physical environments, think, socialize, process emotions, and communicate stemming from our neurobiological differences. Sadly, traditional models of workplace networking have not accounted for this diversity. They have been designed in ways that often leave neurodivergent people out. Making networking neuroinclusive is about enriching the workplace culture by embracing a variety of interaction styles that help everyone feel valued. By respecting differences in how we connect, we support our universal human need for belonging, and we treat each other with dignity – a must for a true human connection and understanding. We can connect inclusively.💛 Read more in my latest newsletter. #careers #leadership #neurodiversity #inclusion #human #HumanResources #networking

Over the next 3 months, I’m hosting 4 major events in France, UK, USA and KSA. Beforehand, I want to share my top tips on how to get the best out of networking. 1. Set Clear Targets Action: Make a hit list of the top 10 companies or people you need to meet. Research what they care about—know their wins, pain points, & what they’re hunting for before you walk through the door. Outcome: These conversations won’t just happen by chance. By doing your homework, you’ll turn a five-minute chat into a deal-building moment. Schedule meetings in advance, & after the event, send a tailored follow-up email that shows you were listening. 2. Take the Stage (Literally) Action: Get on the agenda. Whether it’s a keynote, panel, or fireside chat, nothing says “I’m the one to watch” like holding the mic. Use this time to address the industry’s biggest challenges & position yourself—& your company—as the answer. Outcome: Speaking builds instant credibility. It’s not just exposure; it’s authority. Post-event, share the highlights on LinkedIn & invite attendees to continue the conversation, turning an audience into a lead pipeline. 3. Own the Floor Action: Don’t just lurk—work the room. Engage with key exhibitors, ask questions, & position yourself as a resource, not just another pitch. Be direct but curious: “What’s your biggest challenge this year?” and “How can I help?” are powerful openers. Outcome: You’ll stand out as someone who listens. Take notes during conversations, & follow up within 48 hours with a personalised message. Not a generic “great meeting you”—send actionable insights or specific ideas that move the ball forward. 4. Host the Inner Circle Action: People bond better in a more relaxed setting than over Wi-Fi. Organise an exclusive dinner, roundtable, or cocktail event for a curated group of heavy hitters. Keep it intimate—this is about building relationships, not just showing off. Go easy on the heavy sell. Outcome: People remember who brought them value & connections, not who handed out free pens. Post-event, share any key takeaways & book one-on-one follow-ups to solidify what you started over drinks. 5. Hack the Tech Action: Use every tool at your disposal—event apps, LinkedIn, QR codes. Pre-event, reach out to attendees & book meetings. At the event, swap contacts digitally to keep things seamless, & use a CRM to track every interaction. Outcome: You’ll leave the event with an organised roadmap of leads, not just a stack of business cards destined for a desk drawer. Follow up strategically with segmented, value-driven emails & keep the momentum alive. The Bottom Line: Trade fairs & exhibitions aren’t just networking. Preparation, presence, & follow-up separate those who close deals from those who just collect swag bags. Be human. Don’t think of this as just a branding exercise but an opportunity for long term partnerships. Be genuine - your new contacts will become close contacts, if not friends. Make it count! #revenuegrowth

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗬𝗼𝘂'𝗿𝗲 𝗧𝗼𝗼 𝗤𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀? 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗔𝗴𝗮𝗶𝗻 🤔 The people I've enjoyed talking to most aren't glossy social butterflies, but those who relish in personal dialogue, diving deeper beneath the surface connection. Truth be told - I've had my fair share of conversational mishaps earlier in my career as a younger sales professional - struggling to engage in any meaningful conversations beyond the weather, & I was left being perceived as an order-taker. 🙈 This seems to be a common problem as these questions keep surfacing in my sessions with sales teams: ❓ Initiating Contact: How do I start a conversation with someone new? ❓ Maintaining Flow: What to do when I run out of things to say? ❓ Building Rapport: How can I connect with someone of a different level? After 12 years in this field, I've discovered the uncomfortable truth – extroverts don't own the monopoly on great conversations. The magic really happens when you're genuinely curious about someone who is different. ☝️ My point? The best conversationalists aren't smooth-talkers – they're the ones who 𝘀𝗵𝘂𝘁 𝘂𝗽 𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 & 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗻𝗴𝗮𝗴𝗲. Here are some quick bites to nibble on: ✅ Light & Casual - Not everyone opens up at hello. It's not rejection—it's human nature. Keep it light. Aim to connect as a friend rather than impress with your knowledge. The pressure drops, conversation flows. ✅ Genuine curiosity beats performative interest - We can smell fake enthusiasm like week-old sushi. Probe a little rather than topic-hop, which feels like channel surfing. Dive deeper into topic with open-ended questions. ✅ Acknowledge before moving on - No one enjoys conversational whiplash. A simple "That's interesting" before continuing keeps the connection alive. Convo 101: people need to feel heard before they'll share more. ✅ Self-disclosure opens up reciprocity - Share something genuine about yourself—a challenge, an honest insight. Vulnerability invites vulnerability at the RIGHT stage. PS - first meeting is NOT a therapy session. ✅ Engage on emotion, not just information - When someone's communication cue changes, lean in. Ask yourself, "What's this person feeling?" Respond to that & see shallow exchanges become a real connection. So here's to all the "quiet ones" who are actually conversation connoisseurs in disguise. May your next interaction prove that the best dialogues aren't about who talks the most, but who connects the most meaningfully. 🤔 What conversation strategies helps you connect more deeply with people? #EmotionalIntelligence #SalesEQ #Connections This is Cindy Tien, EQ Maven, CSP - Inspiring Sales & Leadership Teams to Strengthen Connections, Conquer Challenges, & Claim their Messages.

Too many sellers inadvertently lower their status in their attempts to "build rapport" with prospects.  Here's how you gain your prospect's RESPECT in the first 90 seconds of a call: First, let's look at how 90% of sellers try to build rapport: "𝘚𝘰 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘢 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮?" "𝘛𝘰𝘰 𝘣𝘢𝘥 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘉𝘪𝘭𝘭𝘴, 𝘩𝘶𝘩? 𝘕𝘦𝘹𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘰𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳!" "𝘏𝘰𝘸'𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘪𝘯 𝘓𝘈 𝘵𝘰𝘥𝘢𝘺?" ^Sports/Weather/Location based rapport isn't really rapport. It's schmoozing, and your prospect can see through that BS. 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝗿𝗲 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝘂𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 '𝗲𝗺 𝘂𝗽 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗹𝗲, just like every other seller who talks about the exact same stuff! If you're OK being treated like a run of the mill salesperson, by all means continue to schmooze. For those of us who'd like different results, read on. --- The easiest way to build rapport is to show you respect your prospect's time + know something about their business. You can do this by following the 90 second rule: 𝗦𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴/𝗗𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝟭.𝟱 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝘂𝘁𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘄𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗯𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀. Examples: 1. For health insurance, we might comment on a new location opening: "𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘢𝘸 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘸𝘴 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘩 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘚𝘤𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘰𝘯. 𝘐𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 3𝘳𝘥 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘲𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘳?" ^New office = more employees who are going to need insurance. -- 2. For our Club Pass sales training program, we'll might comment on something we read on a job posting for an AE: "𝘋𝘢𝘯, 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯 𝘑𝘋 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘌𝘕𝘛 𝘈𝘌 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯. 𝘗𝘳𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘰𝘭 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘳𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘰𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴. 𝘏𝘰𝘸'𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨?" ___ To be clear, there's nothing wrong with bonding over a shared love of the Buffalo Bills, but let that be the cherry on top to your demonstration of prep + respect for their time, not the only way you build rapport. 

🚀 #LinkedInGrowth - The #LinkedIn is saturated with people selling “growth hacks.” The uncomfortable truth: no one actually understands the algorithm end to end. Most advice is recycled folklore, outdated tests, anecdotal wins, or short-lived spikes mistaken for strategy. Based on direct observation across thousands of posts in 2025–2026, the algorithm consistently rewards three things: relevance, demonstrated expertise, and genuine conversation within your professional graph. Not viral reach. Not theatrics. 💡 You don’t need to stand out to everyone. You need to stand out to the people who matter in your niche. LinkedIn evaluates your content primarily against your 1st- and 2nd-degree network, shared industries, and topical authority, not the entire platform. Growth is contextual, not global. What actually moves the needle: 1️⃣ Comments now outperform original posts. Thoughtful comments (15+ words) from relevant professionals often generate 2–5× the reach of likes. Comments drive dwell time, signal credibility, and travel deeper into niche feeds. → Five to ten substantive comments per day in your domain will outperform random posting. 2️⃣ Depth beats volume, every time. The algorithm tracks engagement quality: long comments, threaded discussion, saves, and shares with context. Ten real conversations outperform 500 drive-by reactions. Engagement bait (“Comment YES”) is now, at best, neutral—and often penalized. 3️⃣ Consistency matters—but only within a clear niche. Two to five posts per week are sufficient. What matters is topical focus. Stick to your lane. Authority signals compound when your content reinforces a coherent narrative of expertise. Text posts and carousels routinely outperform flashy formats when they spark genuine discussion. 4️⃣ Conversation design, not applause. Strong opening lines and experience-backed insights win. Ask questions that invite expertise, not agreement. Respond quickly, especially in the first hour. Early interaction materially boosts distribution. 5️⃣ Reciprocity is not optional. Engage first. The algorithm favors mutual visibility within professional clusters. When respected peers comment on your posts, distribution expands—organically and predictably. 6️⃣ Dwell time is a hard metric. Optimize for it. External links suppress reach. If you must share one, place it in the comments. Native text, documents, and carousels consistently generate longer session time and better reach. 7️⃣ Your profile is part of the algorithm. Headline, About section, and experience shape how LinkedIn classifies you. A fuzzy profile leads to a fuzzy distribution. Authority attracts authority. 👉Bottom line: LinkedIn growth in 2026 is not about gaming the system. It’s about being useful, credible, and consistent in your corner of the ecosystem. 🔥 Quality compounds. Noise disappears. #LinkedInGrowth #PersonalBranding #ContentStrategy #ProfessionalVisibility

"Make yourself findable"...this is advice that I give to candidates, SES's, generals, executives, and even teenagers. Companies are dying to find you, but they just don't know that you exist. They hire Precision Talent Solutions to find you. Like it or not, LinkedIn is the place where professionals go to look for jobs, look for candidates, and to share/consume content. If you are in career transition, it is more important than ever to be thoughtfully active on LInkedIn. Valuable tips: LinkedIn Algorithm Updates (2025) - Relevance Over Virality: The algorithm now favors niche, expert content over viral posts. Generic or off-topic posts hurt visibility. - Connections First: Posts from your own network are prioritized. A targeted, engaged network boosts reach. - Expertise Signals: LinkedIn evaluates who is posting (based on profile) as much as what is posted. - Ranking Factors: Content is ranked by Relevance, Expertise, and Engagement (especially meaningful comments). - Comments Matter Most: Posts with thoughtful, back-and-forth conversation (especially in the first hour) get a major visibility boost. - Spam Filters: Poor grammar, link-stuffing, excessive hashtags, and overposting are penalized. - Engagement Quality > Quantity: Comments from relevant peers beat lots of random likes. - Extended Reach: High-value posts can reach beyond your 1st-degree network if they gain strong engagement. 2. Content Format Trends - Carousels Still Strong: Multi-image or PDF “carousel” posts perform well, but only if value-packed. - Video & Live Streams: Native videos (not links) and especially LinkedIn Live posts drive the highest engagement. - Image Posts: Still effective—posts with a single strong visual get more attention and comments. - Newsletters: Now a top tool for reach—subscribers are notified every time you publish. Best for long-form, high-value content. - Polls & Interactive Posts: Still underused but powerful for engagement and visibility. - Hashtags/Tagging: Use 2–5 relevant hashtags. Over-tagging or irrelevant tags = spammy. - External Links: Posts with links are penalized. Better to add links later via post edit or use native formats. 3. Engagement Best Practices - Provide Niche Value: Focus on helpful, profession-specific insights, not generic content. - Hook Early: Start posts with a bold statement or question to capture attention. Encourage Dialogue: Ask questions, respond to comments, and spark discussion to improve reach. - Use Rich Media: Mix in carousels, videos, and images to keep your content fresh and engaging. - Go Live or Use Newsletters: These formats offer built-in boost via notifications and dwell time. - Avoid Spam Tactics: Don’t tag excessively, overuse hashtags, or post too frequently. - Grow an Engaged Network: Engage with others to strengthen your own visibility in the algorithm. - Be Consistent & Authentic: Regular, high-quality posting builds credibility and audience trust over time.

Recently, I posted about 𝗹𝗮𝘄 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗺𝘀 𝗵𝗶𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹-𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲, 𝗰𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁-𝗳𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗲𝘅𝗲𝗰𝘂𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗻 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲. Readers asked: 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝘀 𝗲𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲? The answer is not the title or the job description. It is mastery and disciplined use of a skill set that doesn't come naturally for most lawyers: knowing and using the science of personal style and interpersonal communication. Consider what the research on human behavior shows: 1. Roughly 70% to 80% of the people you meet over your lifetime will think and behave differently than you do. Differences are the norm, not the exception. For example, owners, C-suite leaders, and CEOs tend to be Type A, strongly assertive communicators. If that is not your natural style, adapt to theirs – not the reverse. 2. Most people absorb information visually, but highly educated professionals – including most attorneys and buyers of legal services – lean auditory. So do both: discuss it live, then confirm in writing. 3. Every professional has both business and personal motives, values, and agendas. Effective relationship builders learn, adapt to, track, and respond to both. Why does this matter for new clients and revenue? Because every single person you meet 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 a referral source. Whether they ever do depends on how you make them feel – and whether you stay in touch. The best client-facing professionals – and the best rainmakers – do these things consistently: • Are sincerely curious and enjoy interacting with people. • Expect, accept, and are interested in differences in communication styles and avoid judging or dismissing them. • Are kind and establish rapport before anything else. No rapport, no trust. No trust, no credibility. No credibility, no engagement. • Are always thinking: "What can I do to be helpful or useful to you?" • Track whom they met, where, and what was discussed – then follow up and keep in touch appropriately over time. That last point is key: follow-up and follow-through is where the revenue is won or lost – along with the new clients and referrals. Firms investing in dedicated client relationship roles are buying this discipline at scale. If you'd like to enhance your communication skills and develop more business, save the attached infographic to apply these same techniques, one interaction at a time. #BusinessDevelopment #ClientDevelopment #LawFirms